Now that we've covered what not to say, let's talk about some winning things to say to somebody with cancer.
These are my preferences after more than 20 years as a cancer patient, then a cancer surviv...
You've lost so much weight. You look fantastic!
Thanks for noticing! My doctor says I'm malnourished.
You're strong and I know you can beat this.
Are you going to be disappointed in me if I die?